I am hardly an expert on "all things transplant." That said, I know a helluva lot more about them than someone who've never been through the process and has gained what one considers relevant information from simply reading. However, your comment, referenced above, does seem snippy to me.
If the question is about the advisability of a transplant then I agree its valid to ask, "why?" That wasn't the question. The question was "where?" If you feel it's the function of these forums to force people into questioning their doctors advice, I disagree whether it's the CML forum of the Let's Talk forum.
I mean, we ask the same question on the AML forum when the person comes expressing doubts, confusions, fears, concerns, etc. That was not part of the question at hand as it was asked..
So, thanks. I do not believe anything I've typed on this thread has been "snippy" -- until possibly now. Please feel free to report any and all posts you ever see from me as abuse, if you think I've been abusive. Otherwise, I'll not comment on your style and I would appreciate the same courtesy returned.