Ever since I found out my sickness, being depressed, being hopeless and living a life that is full of uncertainties haunts my mind. The idea of waiting death has been playing in my mind ever since, feeling hopeless is the first thing. Being deprived of living a carefree and hopeful life is another, robbed away of happiness...The question of how to feel free and enjoying living is being snatched away by this sickness.
Before I could live a care free life, whether in food, investment or in any risk decision making could bring a sense of happiness and achievements of life. But now even a simple kind of decision in what food to take will let me think of my sickness, example junk food will let me think twice if the food will make my CML become worse.... It makes me sad, everything one does the sense of fun is not there anymore....... What if one take the risk and turn out to be a bad decision and cost one life? Or what if ones stay low, do not take any risk in life sitting and wait things to come by where it could means nothing will happen and deprived of excitement in life... like a boring dead life to me....Living a life with fear is no different of being dead...
How one could think to live a happy and have a "normal life" to regain self-confident in every decision making in life again...
The sense to feel happiness of making decision in life is being deprived. Example, if a patient wishes to start a family, I belief, the worried of whether ones could have a normal healthy child will haunt his mind daily until the child Is born and grown up....What if the child is not normal, will one regret taking the risk and start blaming oneself a lifetime... Where is the sense of freedom of choice in mind to make decision without feeling guilty if the decision is wrong later...Or one to lead a passive life with no excitement and happiness; like living a life waiting for the final day to come.
How could one be happy and live a life to the fullest again when the sickness is bugging in the mind??? i.e. How to debug the mind and start living with a small sense of happiness ?
Should we pray to god and wait for his response... ? Why there is so many suffering in this world without reason behind or we just do not have the knowledge to comprehend why...The question, how could we live a carefree life with a sense of excitement again...How could a life be contended without excitement and carefree or am I too greedy to have the rights of living? Sad to say being sick is equal to deprive of the right of being normal and happy....?? I am not feeling sorry or bragging...? Or is life is like a box of chocolate, you do not know what you are going to get. Or do I need a shrink or just me.. ??